Without A Word: Happy Valentine's Day

Romance On The Silver Screen

Scarlett and I thought with today being Valentine’s Day, we might share some of our favourite romantic movies with you, and suggest you tell us some of your favourites in turn. Mind you, these aren’t quite the sort of movies that will make you blush or anything…. unless your tendency to blush is rather unusual. Go ahead and admit to it, we won’t judge you, will we?

Of course not! But then, if you're a regular visitor to this blog and you're still blushing, well....

My first choice would have to be one of my personal favourites. Before Sunrise tells the story of an American (Ethan Hawke) who meets a French woman (Julie Delpy) on a train, and convinces her to step off the train and see Vienna with him on his last night in Europe.

The film plays out through the night as the two get to know each other, talking and seeing things in the city. And the audience falls as much for these two as they fall for each other. They’re both smart, well spoken, and appealing characters, we can’t help but like them. If you haven’t seen this yet, why haven’t you? And if you don’t like it… well, you must be lacking a soul. In which case, a team of exorcists will be coming to see you.

One movie on my list is one I found quite by accident: If Only. With over two hundred satellite channels, one would think there would never be a shortage of things to watch, right? Not so. So...while channel surfing one Saturday afternoon, I discovered this gem of a film about an American musician living in London (Jennifer Love Hewitt) and her British executive boyfriend (Paul Nichols). Ian's preoccupation with his work is a source of deep disappointment for Samantha, who would like more of his attention.

After an argument in a restaurant, she walks out on him—and is killed in a traffic accident. He's of course stunned to find her in his bed when he wakes the next morning. He soon discovers he's been given a chance to relive their last day together. Will he repeat his mistakes, or give his love one incredible last day on earth? What could have been a sappy, overblown romance is instead tender and thoughtful, reminding us that we never know what day might be our last...and that we should never take those we love for granted.

I’d never heard of that one, but that must be remedied post haste!

Another personal favourite of mine must be For Love Of The Game. Yes, it’s a sports movie. It’s also much more. During the last game of a bad season, a legendary pitcher (Kevin Costner) must decide if he wants to retire or not, and while he’s playing the game, he’s flashing back to what’s really important to him: the woman he’s had an on-again and off-again relationship with for the last few years (Kelly Preston).

Their relationship is the bedrock of the film, and the decision he has to make is tied directly to her in every way. It’s a beautifully told film, a terrific character study, and in the end, a satisfying romance.

Another Costner film is on my list: Dragonfly. It's a supernatural tale of love that overcomes death itself. When a doctor's pregnant wife—also a doctor—is killed while on a humanitarian mission in a third-world country, he is unable to accept his loss. He begins to have strange dreams in which his deceased wife seems to be reaching out to him, trying to tell him something.

She had a special fondness for dragonflies, as well as a dragonfly-shaped birthmark, and he's seeing dragonflies everywhere. Ultimately, his obsession leads him to the place where she died...where he discovers she was indeed trying to tell him something. He makes an incredible discovery that leads him out of the darkness of grief and gives him a reason to go on. This film reminds me of another favorite, Ghost.

One film that I frequently kick myself for not seeing in the theatre is The Lake House. The movie brings back together Keanu Reeves and Sandra Bullock, in a manner of speaking. I say that because the two characters, though occupying the same home, are in two different time periods, and yet able to talk to each other, through letters left in the mail box.

None of it is ever explained, and there’s really no need for an explanation. They’re these two wonderful characters, perfectly suited for each other, and the story fleshes them out so well, all the while making good use of near-misses, the rules of time, and the idea that we’re all closer to each other then we realize…

I love The Lake House, too. As you might have noticed, I have a special fondness for love stories with a supernatural element. But I also love romantic comedies, which brings me to my next choice, Sweet Home Alabama. Reese Witherspoon plays a rising start in the world of fashion who keeps her redneck roots a secret—until her aspiring politician boyfriend (Patrick Dempsey) proposes and they start talking quickie wedding.

Before she can marry him, she must go home to Alabama and convince her estranged husband (Josh Lucas) to finally sign the divorce papers. Once home, however, “Felony Melanie,” as she's known there, finds herself with unresolved feelings for the man she left behind. Oddball supporting characters make this film as much fun as a romance can be!

Felony Melanie, huh?

And who can make a list like this without paying due homage to the best film of all time? Casablanca, the classic Humphrey Bogart and Ingrid Bergman movie, tells the story of a jaded American stuck in Morocco during the Second World War, and the woman who got away. This is the movie that has it all: a great love triangle, smart snappy writing, memorable characters, terrific villains, and a story that hinges on finding your idealism, courage, and doing what’s right, even if that means letting the person you love go. Oh, and it’s got the best final conversation in movie history.

Ah, Casablanca! Indeed it is the best film of all time. Not much more I can say to add to what James has already said. Bogart...Bergman...an exotic wartime location, an incredible script...a winning combination that remains unmatched to this day!

So that’s our look at romantic movies for this Valentine’s Day. To our readers, we wish you a happy Valentine’s Day. Now, if you’ll excuse us, we’re spending the evening in between the sheets….

St. Valentine's Day: Advice, Flirtations, and Arched Eyebrows

Happy Valentine's Day all!

We've seen so many Valentine-themed blogs in the past few days that we decided we just had to offer our own thoughts on how to celebrate this holidays for lovers. Candy and flowers are nice, girls, but what do you really want from your man? And men, what would you like your women to do to show you they love you?

A very happy Valentine's Day indeed!

It's a day meant to celebrate love and affection. It's a day where the florists and chocolatiers are at their busiest. It's a day filled with Valentine's cards. In fact, as Scarlett can tell you, it's one of our favourite days.

I'll start by suggesting that as men, we like to feel appreciated.

I know how you like to be appreciated, darling, but maybe you should give our readers some details.

Oh, yes, we're supposed to be behaving ourselves and giving them tips and thoughts.

What do we men want? No, not a case of beer in front of the television. At least not if we're worth anything. I know that's a common stereotype, but not all of us are like that.

It's the little things, really, that make us feel appreciated. Those small gestures of affection. It might just be a momentary rub of an arm. A pat on the back. A kind word.

Oh, and we really like back rubs.

Now when did I ever want you to behave yourself, sweetheart?

Girls, try the back rubs. Try a full-body massage. Try a warm, sensuous bath for two. Sip champagne. Eat chocolate dipped strawberries.

Better yet, feed them to him. Give him a shave. 

A shave, yes. It implies a great deal of trust, guys. She's got that sharp razor at your throat, after all.

And by the way, gentlemen, feeding her those strawberries too is a very good idea. They're tasty... they're good for energy, and both of you will need that energy.

Just take your time. Make sure that champagne's the good kind. And while you've got her in that tub, give her legs a rub. Yes, it might well lead to more vigorous activities, so to speak.... but do it just for the sake of doing it too.

Now, speaking of full body massages, there was this time Scarlett and I got carried away with ourselves in the governor's mansion...

I still don't understand why everyone was so upset. The press catching us certainly drew attention away from the accusations being hurled at him....

We ended up on the cover of every newspaper in the state and the National Enquirer.  I thought we looked fabulous! I don't know why they put those silly black ribbons across our private parts, though....

They're perfectly natural parts of the anatomy, after all, but some people....

Anyway, where were we? Oh, yes. Talking about massages. You can make it a mutual thing, guys. Let her massage you, and do the same in return. And I strongly suggest lots and lots of practice.

And while we're at it, try a couple's massage. Take a weekend away. Go to one of those all inclusive inns. Have a couple's massage done. It's a wonderful way to unwind...

Go to a cozy bed and breakfast, just the two of you. Pamper each other. Indulge each other's fantasies. 

Like that naughty nun James enjoys so much....

The naughty nun. And you look so ravishing in a habit.

Or that dashing swordsman you so adore....

Ah, Zorro. The fox. And James does look so very foxy in that cape, boots, mask, hat...and nothing else. 
His sword is impressive. And that sabre's not bad, either.